To constant wear periods however they videos turned buddy fire cell Nazi Germany 1943 I am convinced that if we as a society work diligently every other area of life and neglect the family, it would be analogous to straightening deck chairs on the Titanic. Covey Marriage is our last, best to grow up. Barth Marriage is one conversation, checkered with disputes. Stevenson The goal is to have a conversation a way that you can have another conversation tomorrow. The first duty of is to listen. Tillich Bad marriages 't cause infidelity; infidelity causes bad marriages. Pittman Infidelity flows from a belief that women have the power to make you feel like a if you only find a woman that thinks you're perfect; if you can only find a woman that you haven't hurt or disappointed yet. Pittman Fidelity is the single most important element solidly enduring marriages. Pittman I'm tempted to go to all the buildings downtown and put up a sign, DANGER ZONE: Men and Women at Work. Today's workplace is the most common breeding for affairs. It's the proximity and collegiality the intimacy of working together, not bad marriages, that is the slippery slope to infidelity. Shirley Glass, NOT Just Friends Men's affairs particular are often the cause of troubled marriages and not the effect. data, 56 percent of men who entered into affairs said they had ''happy'' or ''very happy'' marriages, compared with 30 percent of women. For men, the strongest predictor for having affair is their attitudes and values about monogamy. For women, it's marital unhappiness. Shirley Glass, NOT Just Friends Interviewer: For you were the poster boy for American bachelorhood. that you've settled into a marriage, do you find monogamy difficult? Beatty: No. I would imagine that marriage without it is difficult. Sex is a conversation carried out by other means. If you get on well out of bed, half the problems of bed are solved. Monogamy is, most appealingly, energy-saving device which prevents you wasting time and effort on hunting new prey, deceiving a partner or curing a broken heart or bruised ego. Preserve trust this essential area of your life and you can reap tremendous rewards: the 100 per cent devotion of another human being fuels your ambition, supports you your mission and helps you to overcome obstacles. Monogamy has much to offer. We should trumpet its benefits far more loudly -education classes and teen magazines. The pledge 'Just say no' has failed to catch on; should be easier sell. Cristina Odone, The Observer What we really need is a time machine that people entering into affair could flash forward and themselves, their kids, their lives at the other end of this tunnel of at the end of the lust. Sollee, New is the brightest, and is the greatest, but revived is the tenderest thing known on earth. Hardy He who finds a wife finds what is good. Proverbs 18 Union gives strength. Aesop Between husband and wife friendship seems to exist by nature, for is naturally disposed to pairing. We have a group of very passionate, romantic couples. They sort of enjoy the bickering and the arguing... to them, it symbolizes real involvement and connection. Gottman, PhD, on observations at his U. of Washington Lab a good relationship, people get angry, but a very different way. The Marriage Masters a problem a bit like a soccer ball. They kick it around. It's 'our' problem. Gottman, PhD, on observations at his U. of Washington Lab The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse predict ailing marriage: Criticism, Defensiveness, Stonewalling and Contempt. The worst of these is contempt. Gottman, PhD, on observations at his U. of Washington Lab I talk and talk and talk, and I haven't taught people 50 years what father taught by example one week. Cuomo the end, there is nothing a can do that a woman can't, except